Thursday, October 21, 2010

A friendly advice

Last Night I had a chat with a dear friend of mine
so you know who you are
anyway i would like to say this

There's no point pleasing someone if it doesn't please yourself
people are always going to have an opinion about you
no matter where you like it or not
so quote the verse " Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one"

what this was about weddings
it's that time of year again
invitation cards coming knocking at your doors
and you realize that you hardly spoke or even met this person in a fair bit
now if you think friend really matters a lot to you , it's easy you go have a great time
simple!, semplice!, Bona fide it's done

however, if you dont feel like going and you dont really feel the vibe
be nice, decline, say i'm sorry i wont be able to make it, finish it off with an angpow,
Simple nice gesture, sorry to say the contrary, we know what the motive is anyway
here's the fact: You don't have to make yourself miserable in order to make someone happy (* for someone that least matters to you)
You don't have to please anyone. you don't own them that pleasure!

my friend,
i'll finish off with that, i hope you take the message to the heart
remember, happiness is spread around and it comes from within!

Hopefully this songs makes you feel better K!

4 comments:

deepak said...

That's really really good advice dude. And u've played ur role as a friend perfectly. All u can do is to lend an ear n at most give advice. It's up to ur friend if they want to take heed of it.

Joel Chu said...

Thanks dude: =D agree on it.. you can bring the mule to the water hole but you can't force it to drink! why? cause its an ASS! LOL wahahaha

George Yew said...

to ur friend, take care!

and.. olivia is hot! ^^

Joel Chu said...

george: yes she is :P